Dating pretty german women
One problem is that German men think youre flirting when youre not.
More serious is that they often dont know how to react to your flirting when you are.
Which means that when we swashbuckling foreigners show up and actually flash our pearly whites and -- gasp -- say "hi" to a German woman, it comes across as overly forward.Perhaps: In the native habitat of homo curiosus s exus (the common, cautious subspecies of the German man), things can take a little longer and are a bit more considered than in other countries.In fact, it could be that he entirely skips the superficial flirting thing, works on establishing a friendship and then -- days, weeks, months, years later -- finally manages to bore your pants off.Flirting in Germany is not nearly as fun, meaningless or flattering as it is elsewhere.But the sometimes awkward but also deliciously subtle dance between the genders here might just grow on you.
And the calculus is simple: If she doesn't know you're interested, your chances are nada -- if she can't ignore your come-ons, at least she's got to make a decision.